As we anticipate the arrival of our second baby in the fall, we have lots of family and friends who want to offer their support and help. It is a true blessing to be surrounded by so much love.
I've heard about special gatherings called "Sprinkles" which is a more intimate gathering rather than a large shower, where family and friends come together to celebrate this new addition!
Buying gifts for a new mom is easy because she needs everything. At the same time, first-time moms often register for items that don't get used and then find themselves buying additional items that they didn't realize they'd use so often.
Here is a list of ideas:
1. New linens and bath items - these are regularly used items that many moms will not put on the list but it's nice to replace them. New sheets and blankets for the crib, new washcloths and towels, additional shampoo and lotion will come in handy. See if mom or dad will tell you their favorite brand!
2. Diapers and Wipes! If you can find out what brand mom likes best, help stock her changing table with sizes 1, 2 and 3!
3. Gift certificates for services: Whether it's a restaurant, a movie rental service, a cleaning service or a yard clean up, parents will appreciate having another set of hands to take care of weekly needs.
Give second-time parents one less thing to worry about with a meal at their favorite restaurant or a subscription to an online video streaming service. Having a maid service for the day is much appreciated too - who doesn't love a sparkling clean home? Or if you know a fantastic photographer, consider a portrait session for the family - or the new siblings - at mom's convenience, of course! (Remember, you can even give an iTunes gift card which could be used to buy a new mommy app - used for tracking naps and eats. Or a toddler app to entertain during "quiet times".)
4. The Gift of Time: A new baby demands lots of time and many parents will struggle to juggle duties! Offer to watch the newborn while mom and dad spend quality time with the older sibling, or hang out with older brother or sister so that they can concentrate on the newborn.
5. The Gift of Relaxation: Even though Mom may not be able to pull herself away from the newborn, offer a relaxing break with a spa treatment or massage. A nice, new robe might be nice for mom as she wakes up multiple times throughout the night.
6. Made for TWO: A double stroller can come in handy if you have two young children. Second car seat will also be needed! You can also spruce up an older car seat with a soft car seat cover available at major retailers - or try Etsy for a unique or monogrammed cover!
7. Care Calendar for meals and visits - help out the new family by using an online service to organize the family and friends who want to reach out and bring dinner. You can even mention food allergies and specific meal times so that the family can expect visitors in advance.
What would you recommend as a good gift for second-time parents or younger siblings?